j.getz

  • j.getz posted an update 9 years, 11 months ago

    i bought a dna kit
    hope i find answers

  • j.getz's profile was updated 9 years, 11 months ago

  • j.getz posted an update 10 years, 5 months ago

    if always imagined what id say to him if i were to meet him but today i realized if i were to meet him i don’t think id know what to say or if id even be able to form words so tonight i started writing to him saying everything ive wanted to say ive written five pages and it seems like i haven’t begun to scratch the surface so it may end up being…[Read more]

  • j.getz posted a new activity comment 10 years, 7 months ago

    I really want to do the dna tests but currently cant until i get a better paying job and more hours. i would go to look for alumni pictures but i don’t know for sure what college my donor went to my donor profile had very little information on him it said he was studying botany but not where. another reason i haven’t done the dna tests is because…[Read more]

  • j.getz posted an update 10 years, 7 months ago

    another all nighter wishing i could find him knowing all i will gain staring at the computer screen is sleep deprivation yet still unable to close the computer or my eyes. this longing to know where i come from is eating away at me.

    • I can empathize with you…been there many times. I will say once you find your family, for good or bad, those sleepless nights will stop and you will have a sense of closure. That happened for me. Your profile says you haven’t DNA tested yet…have you considered doing that? It’s only $99 / test. Make sure you test on all 3 and purchase…[Read more]

      • I really want to do the dna tests but currently cant until i get a better paying job and more hours. i would go to look for alumni pictures but i don’t know for sure what college my donor went to my donor profile had very little information on him it said he was studying botany but not where. another reason i haven’t done the dna tests is because…[Read more]

  • j.getz posted an update 10 years, 8 months ago

    anyone ever afraid they will end up with one of their half sibs romanticly the idea terrifies me. i had a nightmare that my boyfriend was my half sibling i told him it made him laugh because there is no way we are related. but the idea still scares the hell out of me.

  • j.getz posted a new activity comment 10 years, 9 months ago

    i’ve been wanting to send my dna in but haven’t been able to yet. alot of times i envy the donor kids who dont know that the were conceived with the help of a donor. ive been wondering ever since i was a little girl where my donor is. i hacked my moms email when i was 15 to get my donor profile only to find that it was basically blank. i cant…[Read more]

  • j.getz posted an update 10 years, 9 months ago

    every time i log in on this site it breaks my heart a little i don’t know which is worse having a notification that gets me super excited hoping its a possible match and finding out its nothing or logging in day after day to nothing i know my donor isn’t my father but i want to meet him once hear the sound of his voice see if i have his eyes i…[Read more]

    • Thanks for sharing, @j-getz. I feel your pain, I have been there, and every new member that joins I check to see if they are from my university where I was made. I think what makes it hard is the reality that he is your father and part of who you are and he is missing. We’re not meant to live this way on this planet. I used to stay up all…[Read more]

      • i’ve been wanting to send my dna in but haven’t been able to yet. alot of times i envy the donor kids who dont know that the were conceived with the help of a donor. ive been wondering ever since i was a little girl where my donor is. i hacked my moms email when i was 15 to get my donor profile only to find that it was basically blank. i cant…[Read more]

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