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update: donor wants nothing to do with me, but the rest of the family seems open. I am in contact with a half sister. It seems crazy that I have ended my search. Crazy good.

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1/ I have not had an personal contact. I contacted my DNA match which happen to be the brother of my donor. He passed along my info and I have not heard from my donor. I am in contact with my donor’s daughter, my half sister. She said that she is not suppose to talk to me about him. All contact is via computer.

2/ I call him several things. It used to bio dad but since he wants nothing to do with me. I have been just calling him donor.

3/ single mother. married several times. lots of step fathers. the first couple were called dad, but then just names and eventually i gave them numbers.

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I have not heard back from either of the 2 remaining brothers but I am happy to have narrowed my search down to 2.

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Well I heard back from my Uncle-Match (lol) and he connected me with one of his brothers. He is not the donor. So we are at least getting somewhere. They are both helpful and I’m sure will help me figure out which of the remaining 2 it is. I think they are accepting me as a niece now. or some form of relative. we plan to meet in person soon! I will definitely buy through this site when the time comes. Which test should I get for a possible father or half sibling?

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Found a 1st cousin through Ancestry! A work in progress but very excited.

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