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wmdoran replied to the topic Emotional Support in the forum Sperm Donors 10 years, 9 months ago
Think what you want but what I’m suggesting is not crazy. Here’s a recent story where the ‘donor’ father is winning rights: http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/jurisprudence/2015/02/sperm_donor_parental_rights_new_jersey_lesbian_couple_is_losing_visitation.html.
These children are so young; 1.5 and other still in womb. You’re…[Read more]
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wmdoran replied to the topic Emotional Support in the forum Sperm Donors 10 years, 9 months ago
I’m offering @ellssjay an idea. It sounds like her boyfriend is interested in his children and their ‘friends’ are open to him being part of their lives. This is a pretty complicated situation, calling this man less than altruistic because he desires to be part of his children is reflective of a broken perspective of fatherhood on your part.…[Read more]
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wmdoran replied to the topic Emotional Support in the forum Sperm Donors 10 years, 9 months ago
@yfactor it sounds like as a minor you were influenced or heard about sperm ‘donation’, then shortly after hit with the reality of your existence/conception. 18 is a formative age developmentally. I could see your reaction to your news to proliferate yourself but in a more altruistic way than you had been made by being ‘open’. I’m just not…[Read more]
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wmdoran replied to the topic Emotional Support in the forum Sperm Donors 10 years, 9 months ago
We did get a little off topic. Thanks for commenting back @ellssjay. I’m sorry to hear the stress you are facing as part of this dysfunction. My thoughts are either way the friendship is over. Each party has expectations that are not in line with the other’s. I think the original ‘agreement’ is out the window. Is any of it on paper? Keep all…[Read more]
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wmdoran replied to the topic Emotional Support in the forum Sperm Donors 10 years, 9 months ago
I guess I made wrong assumptions. Your profile says you found out at age 17 you were ‘donor’ conceived. Are you saying you ‘donated’ your sperm before 17? That doesn’t sound logical.
The way you describe this process is damage control. Minimizing contact to minimize damage. It should make sense that something that is damaging if fully known…[Read more]
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wmdoran replied to the topic Emotional Support in the forum Sperm Donors 10 years, 9 months ago
You are coming from a place of belief that it is Ok to create children and families this way with third parties. I am coming from the place that it is damaging to everyone involved as @ellssjay has shared. Creating families this way is an illusion of family but there are consequences. The social parent in this case is not forcing pictures it…[Read more]
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wmdoran replied to the topic Emotional Support in the forum Sperm Donors 10 years, 9 months ago
@yfactor Saying that sharing pictures can cause emotional damage goes to show that the connection between genetic parents and children is natural and strong. Children are meant to be raised by their real parents. This is a perfect example of the natural development and connection between a father and his offspring. By disassociating via name…[Read more]
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