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Hi there!

1) I have only had online contact with my donor. He was eager and excited at first, but then had cold feet and backed away. Then, he was diagnosed with cancer and died a few months later. It was unfortunate timing, as I never got to meet him. He did write me a final email to apologize if he had hurt me, state that he was proud of my accomplishments, and invite me to visit his grave in the future.

2) Donor, or biological father. I also addressed and referred to him by his first name.

3) My mother was married to my dad, or Daddy (social father, if people don’t know me) while I was growing up. They never divorced.

Hope that helps!

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